This is the continuation of the previous article:

MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 1
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 2
MOUNTAIN OF PROBLEMS WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP - PART 3

How to recognize that you are creating mountain of problems within your relationship ?

This could vary for different people and couples but yet there few common points which ring the alarm bell:

1. You start to blame your partner for the problems that you have.

2. You insist that your partner must do something about it.

3. You believe that everything is OK about you even though your relationship is fucked.

4. You start to think that you are better then your partner and that you deserve to have a better partner thus you start looking around for another more suitable partner.

5. There is one way communication within your relationship where you talk and express your dissatisfaction but you don't allow your partner do the same.

6. Your partner will try to communicate to you that he is not happy about the situation, that you have changed but you will avoid this type of discussions and you will cut him off.

7. You avoid confrontations with your partner through which you could possibly realize that you are equally responsible with him/her.

8. You cannot stand the voice, touch and presence of your partner.

9. You don't want to make love / have sex anymore and find excuses to avoid it because you find it boring.

10. You have problems getting excited while trying to make love.

11. You start to judge your partner.

12. You start see the negative aspects of your partner and you focus your attention on them which gives you a feeling of disgust.

13. You start to abuse your partner with words and/or beating him/her.

14. You talk about your partner with your friends and try to find a support that your opinion about your partner ( that is guilty of everything ) is correct.

15. You cheat on your partner.

16. You are considering more frequently terminating your relationship/marriage etc.

These are the guidelines that everybody can use to determine and recognize that they are in the process of creating the mountain of problems but even though you have it presented here on the paper it may not be easy for you to recognize it in real life. The reason for it is that you have like an energetic filter in front of your eyes created within your mind, which makes you completely blind to see and recognize the symptoms of the mountain of problems. Thus you must be very attentive and aware of your environment and the signals that you are receiving because if you are not you will be faced with the consequences of the mountain of problems and they are not nice at all.

To be continued...