I am catching up with posting online my articles.
Today I had a conversation with my colleague about our work together. We have been working together for some time now but lately it came to me that I need to bring some clarity to our work relationship.
And so today we talked. And it looks like the base of our relationship was no so strong and clear. And now it looks like I will have to make the decision to cut it off because the underlying problem is the same as it was some months ago. It seemed that it was solved but in the end it was only suppressed and not visible on the surface. But still I was able to detect it and I called for the conversation.
It is also interesting that this is coming not long after I finished my personal relationship. I see that there I am doing cleaning in my life. I am only asking myself whether my 2 other close friends will also be part of this cleaning. This will only happen if the friendship is not based on clear and pure values. Thus I do not have any fear if that happened but at the same time I hope that we stay friends without the need to go on separate paths working individual processes.
For me the lesson is that I should not get involved in working relationship with people who are dependent on my. I mean there is nothing wrong with depending on other people but as long as somebody does not depend on himself and depends exclusively on others then this is not a harmonious type of relationship.