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I have started a relationship about 3 months ago. I do not want to say that everything was perfect but still I can easily at that I was in love. Well... I love my partner and I was in love but still I did not allow myself to get lost in the emotion of falling in love and be blind. And that means that I saw that we have some weak points and that there is a need to work on them to make them stronger.
And so we did... we spent many hours talking and discussing many points. Some of them were difficult but we were always able to find constructive solution. Constructive solution means that there was no compromise. I do not believe in compromise and so I always look for a solution which is best for all. And in this best for all there is the point when I do not have to compromise. If I went fro compromise there would be the point of what is best for me. And of course best for me only is not best for all.
Anyway I saw how myself and my partner we go deeper and deeper in our topics. And within this I saw how we touch more and more difficult points within us and within our relationship. And so in the last couple of days there came the point, which is a real struggle for us. I know that there is constructive solution but we do not really see it yet. And so we had couple of conversation about it and it seems like we are not making any progress. But still... that is all fine. I know from experience that all I need to do is to stay focused on the objective ( the constructive solution which is best for both of us and at the same time best for all ) and sooner or later we will see it. And once we will see it then we will be able to integrate and apply practically this solution.
Within this whole "conflict" I see that we are somehow at the POINT ZERO in which there is no ore external force pushing or pulling us together. We are standing there and we need to make the decision within ourselves and as ourselves about what we will do and whether we want to continue our relationship at all. YES... I see this point ( possibility ) being there on the table among other possibilities.