I am catching up with posting online my articles.
Not so long ago I had a patient in my studio who had lots of pain in his shoulder. The shoulder was the trigger point to come and ask for help. But in the end it appeared that this person was in the shit hole with lots of problems. Anyway after the treatment with me which also included the advice in regards to his emotional problems this patient has got better and he was very thankful for what "I did for him".
Being very pleased with the results of the treatment he recommended me to another person who has been suffering with severe back pains for almost half a year. So I got in contact with this person to make an appointment.
But guess what happened ?
This person called me and said that he cannot come. I said that it is not a problem and we can meet the next day.
But guess what happened ?
He did not even bother to call me that he does not come.
And do you know what is very interesting within this whole situation ?
Well... during the initial conversation with this man I realised that he is not in a very good economic situation and so I made the decision within myself that I will take only very little money for my treatment or even nothing at all. And I have communicate it very clearly to this man so that he knows about it. I wanted to help him because I knew that he suffers a lot with this back pain and it will be not easy for him to get any effective help from the doctors.
Anyway I realise that most probably he got scared that he could find out the real reason of why he has the back pain ( because I "dig in deep" and I bring to the surface hidden and emotional issues ) and he has found an excuse to not come to see me.
Of course I have not spoken with this man and I do not know for sure the reason of why he did not come ( maybe he had an urgent situation in his life ) but on the other hand I have seen this behaviour in the past on multitude of occasions and thus I am almost certain that this is the case.
Thus my conclusion is that not everybody wants to get better and they have a personal benefit in suffering. As a matter of fact there are many, many people like thins in this world. We already have the solutions to many ( if not all ) of our problems but for some reasons we do not apply them and we continue to suffer.