I am catching up with posting online my articles.
Anyway... the next day I was in my work place preparing the walls for painting and then I asked myself a question:
Why do you have to always do things by yourself while on the other hand you are the one who helps your friends whenever they ask you for it ?
And so now I am facing the point when I could ask a friend - who is really good at decorating houses/places - to help me and I am stubbornly doing things myself explaining that this will make my work place to be the reflection of myself. And within this I realised that indeed most of the time I do things by myself as I do not want to bother my friends y asking them to help me.
And when I realised this then I decided that I will call my friend and I will ask him to help me with the decoration of my work place but I will not give up completely my power to him ( in a sense that I think of me that I cannot do decoration ) but instead I will participate equally in it. Although within that I recognize that my friend has more experience and so I will take his advice into my decision making process.
So here is a situation when I "killed 2 mind patterns with 1 stone". One of them was that I was giving up on myself and giving my power to my friend who is the decorator. And the 2nd one was that I had issues with asking friends for help while on the other hand I was helping them whenever they asked me to do so.
I am really pleased with these 2 little realisations.