I didn't have access to internet yesterday thus I am posting my article today.
To comprehend what I mean through my title you must first understand that everything that is happening in your life as well as in the world is the result of your creations combined together with the creations of others. Apart from this you must know that everything is interconnected and thus whenever you change, it will affect the whole world. I know that many people cannot comprehend how they can change the whole world taking into consideration that they are so small. It doesn't matter that you are small. The key to understanding it is in the interconnectedness. Because if you change then also people around you will change and then this change will go like the wave through the whole ocean changing everything. So don't doubt that you can change the world. Maybe you don't see it immediately but in the end you do it.
Let's go to the point of anger. You must realize one thing. This current creation of yours in this moment is in a state of equilibrium. It doesn't matter that there is poverty, starvation, abuse, war etc. This current state is as it is and it wants to stay in this way - it wants to protect itself and it resists the change. Thus if you dare to change for real you are becoming automatically enemy number 1 to the current state because your change threatens the current equilibrium. You are part of this current system and without you this current system cannot exist as it is and it will try to defend itself and protect from the change and one of the form of defense is attack.
Thus realize that once you change, not all the people around you will be happy about it because you will withdraw your energy and participation in the common creation of the current state which they call equilibrium. It doesn't have to be that you are living in "happy" and wealthy family. If you live among the poor and unhappy people it will be the same. It doesn't matter whether you are happy or sad, poor or rich, the state that you are in is in "equilibrium" and it wants to stay in this way. And thus all the people involved into creation of this equilibrium will want you to stay. Most probably at first they will tell you "gently" and "politely" that you should rethink what you are doing ( changing yourself ) but if you persist they will get at you with anger and fury. And you have to withstand it all and remain stable within it.
Thus as you can see if you decide to change for real and you will go in this direction most probably you will be facing the attacks of anger of the people around you ( including your closest family members ). This will not happen if you are among people who are also in the process of change and they understand your process. In this case they will be happy for you and supportive.