I am catching up with posting online my articles.
So what should we think about this whole situation ?
We will not going to judge this person especially because there is nothing wrong with working so much. It is his decision. We could only question the reason for making this type of decision where somebody gives away all of his time to somebody else.
What is fear ?
Not feeling good enough ?
It does not really matter. The point is that as long as he he does no decide to look inside of himself as he does not question his decision then nobody can do anything about it. I have only suggested that he starts doing something for himself in the form of doing a little bit of physical exercises and stretching. If he does it then this will be the sign that he willing to change things. But this is all up to him.
Now... how does this compare with my pattern of excessive work ?
Well... the thing with me is that I have already changed this behaviour. And then I did not work so much out of some fear or hidden emotions. I wanted to make my project and I worked with other people. There was a lot of things to do and then I also made a mistake.