I am catching up with posting online my articles.
So I did a massage yesterday and my client really enjoyed it. And at the end I made a joke asking if my massage was better than sex.
Anyway I thought about it afterwards and I realised that we ( many people ) have taken for granted and we have defined sex as the ultimate pleasure in a way. Well... maybe not the ultimate because sometimes people do things ( e.g. eating chocolate ) and later they describe the as better than sex ( just like me in my joke ) but we place it high on the "leader of pleasure" and it is not that easy to actually find things that would give us more pleasure.
Well... actually my last statement is not that true. Because in reality many people are very disappointed with sex. Many people have actually big problems when it comes to sexuality. And so this statements about something being better than sex ( through which we state that sex is very pleasurable ) is basically the thing of the mind. We make many fantasies in our minds about sex and we associate it with ultimate pleasure but in the end it basically stays within the realm of fantasies and illusions.
I have to make clear something. The sex can indeed be very pleasurable. But the reality is that people are very limited and restricted when it comes to sexual expression; they have many emotional and physical problems and literally they do not know how to fuck well. And thus we have many people who are unsatisfied with their sexual life. If you do not believe me then go and speak with your friends and you will see for yourself. We have partners but quite often we stay together because we got used to each other or we have common business or responsibilities ( e.g. children ). And there is no more sexual passion or the sex is very boring.
To be continued