I am catching up with posting online my articles.
Thus here in our complex apartment we have a neighbour who presents the symptom of a "control freak" and he tries to impose his rules onto everybody. And thus for example he is trying to forbid that cats of other neighbours walk freely in the community gardens. He explains that they make shit and that he can smell the urine. You'll know... the cats have been here for many years and nobody had problems with them but now since this guy has moved in here not long ago suddenly it becomes forbidden. This is just one example but I can see that he does more of this "control freak" stuff. Personally I also had once a conflict with this guy because he was not happy that I did a meditation in the swimming pool.
Anyway today came to one of my neighbour friends and told me that this guy is mean and nasty to her and she thinks of finding new apartment and move out from here. I told her that I will get in contact with one of the owners who could help her with finding solution to this problem with this guy.
Once she left I started to think more about this situation. And so I came to the conclusion that if this girl decides to leave then she will give her power away to this guy. Through this he will find a confirmation that what he does is right and then he will continue doing the shit that he believes in his mind. I can see clearly that he acts from the level of ego. But then he does not realise it at this point and in his mind he believes and he is "sincerely" convinced that what he does is right.
To be continued