7 YRS PROCESS - DAY 1397 - WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOUR BEST FRIEND FALLS DOWN ? - PART 2

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What will you do if your best friend falls down ?

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This is the continuation of the previous article:

WHAT WILL YOU DO IF YOUR BEST FRIEND FALLS DOWN ? - PART 1


You-ll know... when it comes to friends and family it is very easy to fall into the trap of believing that compromising @temporarily@ ( or I could say @just one time@ ) the principle of what is best for all is not going to carry any consequences for others. As a matter of fact most of people who find themselves in this type of situations don-t really think about what is best for all. They are more inclined towards helping their friend. They don-t think about the help in the long terms. As I said they do what they think they should be doing ( just because they are friends ) or what their friend is asking them to do and within this they do not take into consideration the principle of what is best for all.

I hope that you get my point !!! All I want to say is that no matter who you deal with ( either stranger or your closest friend ) we should always stop ourselves and consider what is the best solution in any given situation.

You-ll know... this is the second time when I apply this rule in my life and I see that this is really beneficial for myself and for my friend. My relationship with my friend is kind of falling apart but I am stable within this whole situation. I am ready to communicate and try to find a constructive solution with my friend but I do not see the same attitude on his behalf at this moment. Maybe he needs some time. Or maybe my company is not beneficial to him anymore and so he decides to go his path without me.

We will see... I repeat again. The most important point within this whole situation is that I do not allow myself to be blinded by the emotion, I am stable and I make my decisions based on the principle of what is best for all.





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Written: 2016 - February - 11   Published: 2016 - April - 03      © Copyright - Greg Wiater