I am catching up with posting online my articles.
I have been lately faced with the situation or I should rather say temptation to fulfil my "sexual desire". Interestingly I did not followed blindly my desire but I stopped myself, I looked at the totality of the situation and assessed whether this would be something which is best for all.
It was all very clear and obvious to me ( especially because I was already faced in the past with a similar type of situations ) that fulfilling my sexual desire in the given situation would not be best for all and so my decision was not to go with it.
What is happening now and what are the consequences of my decision ?
My desire wasn't and it is not fulfilled.
But you know what ?
I do not really need it to be fulfilled.
Yeah... because I have made a decision which is best for all today I am at peace, I am stable and I direct the situation instead of being directed by and being the subject to the polarities of the mind.
And then I also see something else... Making the decision of what is best for all and having the stability within myself gives me now the possibility to see with clarity the probable consequences which would follow if I went with my desire. And I have to say that it wouldn't be anything nice at all. I know that the few moments of sexual pleasure would not compensate me all the pain, suffering and complications which would follow.
So here I am really glad that I have learned to stand clear and stable within the principle of what is best for all.