I am catching up with posting online my articles.
But even if this is not about our deeply engraved emotional problems then why don't we find out the reason why we are shy and change it within us so that we can talk with other people without problem and without the need to get drunk ?
Now... one thing is to use alcohol to suppress our own emotional problems ( shyness etc. ) and then there is also another point of making the girls drunk to get them easier into the bed and have sex with them. Instead of entering into the relationship/agreement ( temporary - one night or long term ) with somebody else which would make both of us stronger we make them weaker and we use ( abuse ) them to satisfy our personal needs and desires. We will never be able to find satisfaction and innocent joy within this type of relationships. It is impossible because our starting point/the seed is based on something unbalanced.
But it is not just that we should blame the guys for it. In the end the girls are the ones who agree to accept the drinks from men and thus they are equally responsible for all the consequences coming from it later.
Now... what would happen if the girls stopped accepting free alcoholic drinks from men and/or men would stop trying to make girls drunk ?
Well... making this one change in our behavior would have an enormous impact on our whole world. Try to make yourself a balance sheet of how would your life look like if you did not drink alcohol at all and if you did not allow yourself to be seduced by alcohol. And now multiply all the suffering and abuse that was done to you at least 1 billion times. I am telling you that making change in our behavior about trying to make the girls drunk to get them into bed would have enormous impact on our whole world.
It is obvious that I cannot force anybody else to do it. But I can stop it myself and encourage others to do the same. You'll see... if you don't do it and you continue making yourself and others weak with alcohol then you have personal interest and desire to abuse others and be abused. It is all up to us.
To be continued...