7 YRS PROCESS - DAY 742 - RELATIONSHIP - WANTING OTHERS TO GIVE ME SOMETHING WHICH I DID NOT WANT TO GIVE MYSELF - PART 1

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Relationship - wanting others to give me something which I did not want to give myself

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There are many reasons why we get together into relationships - very often it is just for sex or we just do it just because this is the tradition etc. Anyway... within the various reasons of why we get into relationships or desiring to have a relationship there is one specific reason of "wanting others to give me something which I did not want to give myself".

Today I was lying in bed during the day and I was thinking or rather wishing to have a partner and be in the relationship. I had these thoughts about nice and beautiful moments of being with someone and being happy and blablabla... you know what I mean...

Then I was scanning in my mind the list of girls who are in my "environment" and which one would be the most suitable to be part of my wish or dream. And then suddenly something clicked in my head ( or rather my whole being but I will explain it further down ) and I noticed that this whole situation makes me kind of anxious and tense ( or something like this ).

And here I had this famous moment called: "WTF..."

I have asked myself a question: "Why should I depend on somebody out there to give me something to make me happy instead of giving it myself ?".

And then I started to look at and analyse how I could give myself the happiness. The first thing was that I started to smile. It was like giving myself the smile... from myself. And it was interesting. I started to relax and be at ease. I even said "WOW" to myself.



To be continued...





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Written: 2014 - April - 27   Published: 2014 - May - 25      © Copyright 2014 - Greg Wiater