I am catching up with posting online my articles. I moved to a new place and I was without fixed internet access for almost a month. I was also very busy with work and that is why I got this big delay with posting online. Though I did not skip a single day with writing my articles.
In the beginning I did not say anything to my friend about it and was just observing what was happening. But then I realized that there is a repeating pattern: my friend attracts the opportunity to fulfill his goal/desire; then he tells me in excitement about how everything is wonderful and how everything falls in place according to his visualization/creation and then comes the complication and problems followed by disappointment.
Once I realized that my friend is dealing with a mind pattern I was trying to point it out to him. I told him: "hey... something is not working with the creation... something needs to be changed or stopped... etc.".
But my friend did not want tot listen to it and he always explained to me that it all happened for the reason. He told me that thanks to these experiences he is in a place where he is right now and he would not have been here right now without these disappointing experiences. Obviously the point where he is right now is when he thinks and believes that the current positive experience is going to continue and that there will be no more complications in his life.
Well... on one hand he is absolutely right that he would not be here and right now where he is without these disappointing experiences. But on the other hand he is no different than any other person in this world. Everybody is where s/he is right now as a result of the moments from the past - both negative and positive.
To be continued...