I had problem with internet last night and thus I am posting my article today.
And the same applies to gays making jokes about men sleeping with women. As long as there is hidden agenda of the mind and someone is trying to either deny his inferiority or prove his superiority, then we have a separation. And then we don't have the oneness and equality and when that happens then we have problems. And all the consequences of the separation are clearly visible in our world today - war, rape, abuse, starvation, slavery etc.
But it is also very important that not every joke about gays or heterosexuals must be a sign of separation. It all depends on each individual and how each had defined himself within his mind and what kind of beliefs and other illusions each has accepted about himself, trying later to live it and prove it to be real. Thus each must learn and become aware of their hidden agenda within their mind and once we become aware of it we can free ourselves from it and create a system in which each individual is equally valued and respected despite of their sexuality or whatever.
Thus:
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to charge the word gay with negativity and inferiority.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define non-gays as normal and better.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that by defining gays as negative and non-gays as better I am creating a separation within my mind and I am allowing the existence of polarities which creates a friction of energy between them and within this friction exists a discharge of energy to balance this disequilibrium in the form of abuse; and thus I am personally responsible for this abuse.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that within the point of making jokes about gays I am trying to make them look inferior and at the same time I am trying to prove that I am better and superior than them; and thus I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire to be superior and better than others instead of realising that we are all equal and any kind of superiority and betterness is an illusion created within my mind to make myself look better and to make myself feel better about myself.