7 YRS PROCESS - DAY 8 - RELATIONSHIP FOR MONEY - DECISION MAKING PROCESS

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relationship for money

The person has gone already through few unsuccessful relationships, she couldn't get the partner that she had a big crash on or her partner who was a "love of her life" was cheated on her and this person comes to the conclusion that true love and this perfect relationship that everybody desires, doesn't exist. There are various scenarios of how this all functions but I will focus on the 2 most common situations.


1. In this case the person makes a decision that she will find a partner that has a lot of money so that at least she may have comfortable life. This is against her personal values but she suppresses it and she goes on the compromise

2. The person meets somebody and is considering the relationship with this somebody. This somebody is very interesting, has many positive elements but there is also one negative element in the character of this person, which is so strong enough that this woman would not consider any relationship with that person. And here is grand dilemma because this woman has desired relationship already for some time but she couldn't find anybody interesting. She's weighing the positives and negatives. Eventually she makes a decision and agrees on the relationship and one of the main reasons why this woman goes on a compromise, is because her potential partner has a lot of money.

Now... The simple fact of deciding on the relationship because of money element is not necessarily that bad and we should not judge it. But if those 2 people don't realise quickly that they have to work together on building oneness and equality within their agreement, then OMFG ( oh my f...n god ). Once the initial excitement and sexual desire build through the mind diminishes, then they will find themselves in big troubles. And then they will regret and say: "why did I do it ?". But then it's already too late and both of them will have to face the consequences of what they have allowed. Quite often this kind of relationships leads to violence, mental and physical abuse, heavy addictions and even murder or suicide.



I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create a system which lacks money and people are being taken to the point of making decisions about their relationship based on money and fear of survival.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to suppress my knowingness and compromise my values and make decisions about my relationships based on how much money my potential partner has.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise the consequences of making decisions about my relationships agreementsbased on how much money may partner has.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to give up on may values and agree on the relationships where the deciding factor was money.

I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to accept the belief that the current economic system which lacks money cannot be changed, thus I have accepted it and I have agreed on the relationships when the decision making process was based on the amount of money that my potential partner has.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to belief that the current economic system which lacks money cannot be changed, and to secure myself a comfortable life I have agreed on the relationships with the partners who have a lot of money even though this was against my personal values.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to suppress my values for the sake of having comfortable life and I have agreed on the relationships with the partners who have a lot of money.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that by compromising my personal values and agreeing on the relationships with the partners who has a lot of money, I create enormous consequences not only for myself and my partner but also for the whole world and for many generations.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hope and belief that having a relationship with a partner who has a lot of money will make my life comfortable.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that making decisions about the relationships based on how much money my partner has is completely fucked up.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that making decisions about relationships based on money carries high possibility of consequences in the form of: violence, depression, mental and physical abuse, heavy addiction, suicide, murder etc.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to create a system which would support relationships and agreements between people based on what is best for all instead of what is best for me.

I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that the current economic system supports formation of relationships and agreements between people based on the principle of fear of survival and what is best for me which curries enormous consequences for the whole world and for many generations.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to weigh the balance between positives and negatives when making decisions about relationships instead of making decisions based on the principle of what is best for all.



To be continued...




     

Published: 2012 - Apr - 23      © Copyright 2012 - Greg Wiater