In majority of cases suicide is being used as a way to run away from facing the consequences and solving the problems. If we were able to make an interview with the persons just before committing suicide they would say that they are doing is because there is no solution to their problems and that they have tried everything and nothing worked. But you know what ? They are not taking into consideration a point that they are blinded by their emotions, depression etc. and this is one of the main reasons why they are not seeing the solution. Apart from this most probably they have been trying to solve the problems out there instead of realising that they are the creators of the problems. I wrote about it in the previous article ( SUICIDE - PART 4 ): " You will not be able to change the world outside of you unless you start changing yourself from within".
This is a very simple point but as I said before people who commit suicide are blinded by their emotions of despair, sadness and depression and don't see it this way. There are many excuses and explanations but the ultimate truth is that these people don't want to deal with their problems. And this is why I say that in majority of cases, suicide is being used as an ultimate method to run away from facing the consequences of our creations and problems. But this is not effective at all because we cannot run away from facing the consequences. The only thing that we do by committing suicide is that we prolong the whole process - and not only for ourselves but also for the whole humanity because we are all interconnected and if one fails then the rest is being affected.
Now... If you have thoughts in your mind appearing especially in the moments of accumulation of problems, don't ignore it. Remember that this may not be easy because in those moments you will be preoccupied with your problems trying to solve them out there and these thoughts about suicide may be hiding themselves under the surface in the subconscious mind and only sometimes show up in your conscious mind. Thus if you notice them, make everything possible to find time for yourself and investigate why you have them, apply self forgiveness and make plan which will help you to solve the problems effectively.
Below you may find examples of self forgiveness we should assist you in in regaining clarity. Read it and aloud and breathe deeply. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that suicide will end up my problems. I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to believe that after the death I will not have to deal with the problems anymore. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that suicide will take me away from the responsibility of facing the consequences of my creations. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am not able to solve the problems and the suicide is the only way to end up the burden and difficulties. I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that the outside world is just the mirror reflection of me and thus to solve the problems effectively I must make the corrections within me first. I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that this suicide prolongs the process of self-realisations for me and for the whole humanity. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that suicide is an easy way out to finish with the problems and facing the consequences of my creations. I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realise that if I don't deal with the problems effectively in the moment then there is a consequence of accumulation of problems and through this it is more difficult to deal with them which has a consequence of feeling of being overwhelmed by them. I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to separate myself from the problems and blame outside situation and other people as the cause of my problems.
SELF CORRECTIVE STATEMENT
When I and as I see myself considering suicide as a method to run away from the problems, I stop, I breathe and I realise that I am entering the phase of facing consequences of my past creations, thus I am must face it, take responsibility for it, walk through it and make adjustments and corrections so that I only create what is best for all.
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